When looking back on the picture of the relay box it seems like you have a pre -94 model,
then what I did say about the relays in post #73 isn't valid.
And the FI relay must be present for the function even when the current comes in through the back door.
And then as you say the FI relay is in the front left corner, ....is the output marked 87/87 or 87/87b ?
About testing the relay you can just disconnect the signal connector at the starter relay so the engine don't
turn.....but on the other hand it could be that it need to be turning before the relay gets a signal.
If you try, just do some short pushes on the starter button....don't keep it pushed for longer periods.
About the relay connectors: 86 coil signal, 85 coil ground, 30 input contact, 87 output contact.