I am a new here, just registered, because I only searched solution for exactly same situation described - everything seems to be ok but, after I hit starter button, the bike died (every lamp get dark). Even I did not find any solution on the web, I solved my problem, just the screw keeping ground (minus) cable to battery was not tighten enough. After tightening such cable she runs again. Probably it is not your case, but who knows :-)