That's horrible! Glad she's well, and hope the tow guy recovers well!
Diagnostic note: On the earlier k-bikes, at least, if it cranks, it can't be the kill switch. Cranking demonstrates the kill switch is passing current. The first suspect for crank-no-start is always the fuel filter. (The K1100 wiring diagrams I'm seeing are rather less informative about the starter relay.)
On towing: When I needed mine rescued, the tow guy had a regular truck with the two outward-facing u-shaped things they put under the car tires and lift up. I was very interested in how he was going to work that.
He put the bike sideways in the two U's, fit like it was made for it. Strapped the frame down to the center part of his tow gizmo, lifted it up three feet, and drove right home.