Thank you folks. So today I discovered another (second hand) relay in a box of bits that came with the bike and installed that only to find that with all this goings on my battery has run down so it did it again. So right now I'm charging my battery (lithium) and will try again. Of course I may have confused things by changing the relay. I've done that because the first time I'm confident the battery was in good shape because the starter motor cranked away solidly for several minutes while I got to and disconnected the battery. But now I've added the doubt of the second relay possibly being faulty too. If the fully charged battery doesn't t sort it I'll buy a new relay. Good idea to install a cut off switch though , thanks.