The 4-pin connector is widely called "the four-pin (4-pin) connector here. Key
4-pin connector site:motobrick.com into a Google search window and you’ll get back plenty of reading material.
You haven’t welded the starter. You’ve welded the starter relay contacts. It’s likely they can be separated just by knocking the relay with a screwdriver handle a couple of times; otherwise, you’ll need to open the relay, separate them and polish them. They will weld together again if you have a weak or discharged battery. You must keep the battery fully-charged when you’re doing this kind of work.
If you intend to restore this Brick into a monument to your creativity and hard-won knowledge, you should probably learn how the feckin' thing works. There are resources all over this site to help you. In the
Service Bulletin-Brochures section, member
volador took time out of his busy schedule of globetrotting and killing fish so he could upload the
LE Jetronic Training Manual. Before you continue, I suggest you download it at its link in the list and look into it. It is essential to acquiring understanding of this pioneering motorcycle engine management system. There is also a BMW K75 K100 2V workshop manual in the
Service Manuals section.
Your Brick was manufactured in September of 1984 according to
realoem's VIN checker. Get familiar with a Brick parts fiche like the one at
Max BMW or realoem. it will help verify parts by part number that will work in your Brick.