hi Wardie
i have just sold my 1992 K1100LT and my front cupped out reasonably quickly also.
most of my riding is medium to high speed corners with only a few straights so am probably spending almost 30 per cent of my time in some sort of corner.
I ran 38 psi rear and 36 psi front , both tyres are pirelli sport demons which I think are a fairly soft compound tyre.
tyre pressures up in the 40's just felt way too hard in my opinion.
I think the K1100 is pretty heavy on the front tyre at the best of times and if you start man handling that big beast through corners at higher speeds you really have to apply some heavy duty counter steering to make your corner in time.
so bearing that in mind you are probably exerting quite a bit of lateral force on the front.
another thing to bear in mind is your front fork is now 20 plus years old.
when was the fork oil changed out last?