See attached.
Pretty sure you are referring to the last four items "Hex Bolt 5 or 7 mm"
Given that you don't have a manual, whenever you undo something, make a note of where the spanner was before releasing bolt / nut. Once loose, return the spanner to that position to get an idea of torque.
Also, at risk of telling you what you already know, if the fastener has not been undone for some time, your are better hitting it hard first go instead of slowly building up the pressure. Make sure the tool is correctly bedded in to the fastener (eg. tap the end of the screw driver or allen key with a hammer "light tap with something heavy").
I had an XP Falcon at uni which ran on 5 cylinders for ages until the road assistance fella freed the dud spark plug saying "a quick jerk is better than a long steady pull." Wise words. Most unroadworthy car I've ever had - a veritable litany of issues. Loved it.
Some people obsess over the torque settings. Having said that - I've just taken delivery of a 1/4" torque wrench for all those 4NM settings. If its biting into aluminium - don't over do it... and use some copper-eze /grease. And "No F'ing locktite"
Anyway download the manual for free from this forum
Guy