UPDATE...
My friend ajay came over today and helped me with the wiring and relays. Being that I know squat about wiring, I sure learned how simple it is once you know a thing or two. Anyway, I stayed with the 14 gauge wiring because it was sufficient. Both beams, hi and lo, were relayed and wired up. However, there was a problem. The yellow wire (lo beam wire) wasn't providing any power. We used a multimeter to check it out and it would not put out a 12 volt reading like the other wires did. It was flat at zero. Being that i had run the dual lights on this wimpy yellow wire prior to placing relays, it most likely became burned out or became defective somewhere. That yellow wire traces into all the other bike's wires it's crossed with and is taped up with the original factory tape (try to picture what the wires look like under the tank). Ajay tested my headlight by cutting the original yellow wire and adding separate wiring to the front half of the yellow wire coming from the headlight connection and touched the other end of the new wire to the fuse. Voilą! The lo beams worked. Hi beams worked as well which means my switch is functional.
NOW, this is what we had to do... we didn't want to go fishing out the yellow wire because then we'd have to mess with all the other wiring it's connected to and that would be time consuming and a pain. So Ajay suggested he attach the wire he connected to the yellow wire directly into the fuse. It was the only option. Unfortunately, that overrides the on/ off light switch. So now, when i turn the ignition, my bike turns on with the lights just like any other modern law complying bike... i thought i was special. :dunno2: Sigh. The only thing the light switch is good for now is to turn my park lights on and off since those are wired separately.
Although I can't disappear from my friends at night anymore, I at least have lights.