A few months ago I had a similar problem with the proper size cup wrench just spinning on the super tight filter on my new-to-me 2017 Honda Accord which has it's filter tucked away in a cubbyhole under the engine.
After spending most of the afternoon going back and forth to the auto parts store trying to find a cup wrench that would work I put a couple of those nitrile gloves in the wrench that fit the new filter and pushed it onto the old one after washing it off with a shot of brake cleaner and letting it dry. Then, a mighty tug with an 18" breaker bar...
Spun it right off, easy peasy. I did have to beat the wrench off of the filter with a block of wood and a hammer, but at least I had it off the engine.
(BTW) Most filters have a pipe thread in them, I think it is 1/2" NPT so a pipe nipple can be screwed into it to hold it in a vise while you get medieval with it.