I wholeheartedly agree that trying to cut only Pin7 with a conventional tool that one might have in their toolbox (like diagonal cutters) would be extremely difficult. For the later black cased relays with the smaller chip, as described on my web page, I just insert the tip of an ordinary push pin behind Pin 7 to break it away and bend it up. Works great and only takes a few seconds. I stand by my empirical results.
BMW Special Tool 07 11 9 908 666:
(https://i.imgur.com/CdGmsjj.jpg)
(http://www.kbikeparts.com/classickbikes.com/ckb.tech/0.ckb.tech.files/ledoemflrelay/23.Flasher.Relay.Black.Pin7.JPG)
I'm sure you already know this but for others reading this here's what chip pins generally look like for the earlier green cased relays. Since the tip of the pin that goes through the circuit board is much thinner than the upper body of the pin it's pretty much always guaranteed to break off here:
(https://i.imgur.com/MR38zw8.jpg[center][/center])